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What I constantly stress in my trainings is that it's just we're dancing. Your audience doesn't see the technique. The target market sees an item of art, the fluidness, the dance, the activity.
I understand the step-by-step actions. In those minutes where we're functioning with each other with the youngster or the system, we are dancing with them.
There is a step-by-step action, leading, number 2, number three. Right. In addition to that, I do assume that if we utilize treatment similar to as a strategy, it will not have the very same effect due to the fact that it's still brought ahead via an embodied mind that is qualified of mentalization, that we're able to hold the child's mind in mind in those minutes of resonance as we do EMDR treatment.
And for that, we likewise have to do our very own work, which I have actually gotten a great deal of EMDR treatment. So I require to experience it. I need to understand what it feels to see those darkness within me. And I have to claim that this inner gos to are the ones that really have actually aided me take concept to a different level, since or else it remains simply theory.
And I know you do that also, Lisa. When I have thought about my very own experience with EMDR, what's often landed for me is this idea of I have a method and it's up to me to bring it to life. That's just how I discuss it for myself.
Somebody has to bring life to it. A person has to bring it forth. And I have usually assumed that that's where so a lot of the magic and the healing takes place is the way in which the therapist brings it to life in an attuned method with the customer.
It's such a beautiful suggestion of our duty in the healing process and our obligation in the recovery process. . Among things that I typically tell my trainees is that we can not assist in change unless we can see something that our customers can know they're unable to see.
We need to be willing and able to see something that they can't rather yet. And when I hear you speaking about we have to go right into our own winters, I also love that language you're using. We need to go into our very own wintertimes. What enters your mind is this concept of if I do not know that my wintertime can turn into summertime, then I'm not mosting likely to have assurance when I'm with my customer that their winter months can transform into summer.
And I won't be able to hold a brand-new possibility for my customer due to the fact that I haven't been via it, to be able to state it's possible, the combination, the makeover is possible due to the fact that I don't understand. I would love for you to speak even more of that around therapists, perhaps even getting embeded the tale with the clients or I don't understand.
As therapists is our very own obligation to understand what it seems like to relocate with something and what that can bring to our customers. Yeah, I love that the example and how went from winter seasons to you took it to the following level. As we experience also the spring and the summer season, yet we likewise discover about the autumn.
I believe that we're far better outfitted to go along with another human mind, embodied mind, to do know to go via that journey. And she speaks about mythology, which I'm captivated by, that I just like tales.
As we go with the abyss, after that she stated, which I love, this, the false self is going to start to change and then the genuine self emerges. Therefore with those trips, death and renewal, after that we find that we are and eventually the among us that traveling back and forth, after that we discover to accompany others.
And after that we can currently see in the underworld. We can see through the shadows and afterwards we can lead others, right. To welcome that since that belongs to the recovery. And so in EMDR treatment, we welcome those darkness. We accept it's not just a memory as a cognitive verbal narrative, but we accept the experiences from an embodied perspective.
I mean, there are moments, also with my grown-up customers, where I seem like so honored to be in that minute and to be able to accompany one more human, to go to those deep levels, those deep areas of our human existence, right. Those layers that are so deep, where you know that because minute something was changed.
Those are deep minutes that you obtain goosebumps and you understand, wow, something occurred right here. ? Yeah. I mean, I'm even having emotion, listening and mirroring on what you're saying. I'm really feeling the power of what you're speaking regarding in my very own remembrance of those minutes. And I recognize for me, it's why I chose to become a therapist, because I intended to be of service to somebody.
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